I guess conversely - I've run across plenty of dudes who seem to be gagging to settle down and raise a family. Shouldn't all these dating apps make it that much easier to find those guys, if that's what you want?
I don't think women can blame men if they don't want to marry and settle down. At the end of the day it's everyone's own decision how they live their life. It's her fault if she stayed too long.
I absolutely agree with this. I can get that she probably liked the guy, and that humans are predisposed to stay in comfortable and familiar situations - but one partner who wants children, paired with one who is at best ambivalent and at worst disinterested, is never going to end well. If you have to badger someone about kids, then that's your cue that you should be moving on, and sooner rather than later.